Unconditional Love
Kaye Anderson
For the last several months, I pondered what I would like to write about if asked to write a devotional for the Advent Calendar this year. Every time I thought about it, I leaned toward writing about Peace.
As usual, I waited until the last minute to volunteer. I learned that there were two slots left, and two possible authors. I asked what the other person was leaning toward writing. When Paige said “Peace”, I automatically said, “Then I’ll take love.”
When I hung up the phone, my mind began racing. Love is such a broad topic. Years of Bible Drill began to flow through my thoughts. “…..but the greatest of these is love” 2 Corinthians 13:13, “ Love your enemies…” Matthew 5:44, “Greater love hath no man…”,John 15:13, “For God so loved….” John 3:16, and the list goes on and on.
“What does the Lord want me to say?” “This certainly is not the topic I was thinking about.” Finally, after praying and pondering the topic, and all the wonderful scriptures, God’s unconditional love began to repeat itself as a theme in my thought process.
Unconditional love is what God Himself showed each of us when He sent His only Son to earth as a babe. Unconditional love is what God showed each of us when that same Son was allowed to die for every man, woman or child who walked the earth, and then be resurrected to conquer death and the grave for each of us.
Why is this type of love so hard for us? Why do we judge others by their dress, or social status, or behaviors? Why do we not trust people who do not think or act like us? Why do we treat our families like second class citizens, when other than our Lord, they should be the most important people in our lives? Why is our world in such a mess?
If we practiced the principle of unconditional love in these situations, perhaps, the outcomes would be different. Unconditional love is not easy. It is a God-sized task that requires us to “deny [ourselves] (our sinful human nature), and take up our cross daily and follow [him]”. Luke 9:23. Unconditional love requires us to trust Him for the outcome, even when in our own eyes, we can see no resolution.
As we approach the Christmas season, I keep remembering a childhood song that goes, “Praise Him! Praise Him! All ye little Children, God is Love. God is Love.” This is not a Christmas Carol, but it seems to remind me of the child like approach to God’s love that we need to remember during this special season.
As we deal with others during the Christmas season, and in times to come, I wonder could we start affirming others in the spirit of unconditional love, and maybe we could add a second verse to this song that goes, “Praise THEM! Praise THEM! All GOD’S LITTLE CHILDREN, God is Love. God is Love.”
Perhaps we might one by one start changing our little corner of the world, and maybe- just maybe- others would see what’s happening and want the same change for their world.